I would like to be less reactive. While googling an image for today’s post I came across many memes and quotes that suggested that the opposite of reactive is proactive…That is true in many cases except when dealing with relationships.  I can not consistently anticipate the abnormal actions of others and thereby proactively have a plan as to how to deal with them.

Most people who I interact with are transparent enough that I know how to address a variety of situations, moods and obstacles. However there are a handful of people who I refer to as “loose cannons”, who at any given time will throw you an attitude or stance that throws the rapport and positive interaction out the window. In those cases, I am both reactive and judgemental. I then try to brainstorm how I could have countered the behavior/action and lament over the issue. A goal of mine is to  address these isolated, volcanic situations and move on without it taking a toll and my emotional and mental energies.